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Five Question Friday! 5/13/11


Well, it's about dang time, Blogger!!


Quickly, here are the questions:

1. Tube socks, calf socks, crew, ankle, none? (From@ThisDaddys_Blog)

2. Was your childs (children's) name a mutual decision or was it a debate? If you don't have children, do you plan on giving your spouse a say, or do you have a name you MUST have, regardless if your other half likes it or not?! (From @mamatodh)

3. What is your favorite type of weather? (From@TheSpunkyDiva)

4. If left to your own devices, what time would you wake up every day? (From Sandy at "Pardon My Dust")

5. Have you bought your cemetery plots yet? (From Pam at "Troop Petrie")

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1. Tube socks, calf socks, crew, ankle, none? (From@ThisDaddys_Blog)

Calf socks in the winter ankle or none in summer!

I can't handle ankle socks with jeans...it just feels too weird! And, most of summer I'm acutally in flippie floppies, but if I have to put on a pair of tennis shoes (you know if I'm, God forbid, going to exercise or something) then it's time to break out the ankle socks!

Plus...I wear calf socks (I believe it's "crew socks") at work...I feel more protected from blood splatters that way!

2. Was your childs (children's) name a mutual decision or was it a debate? If you don't have children, do you plan on giving your spouse a say, or do you have a name you MUST have, regardless if your other half likes it or not?! (From @mamatodh)

Yup, mutual. Although, I never had one of those names picked out that I JUST HAD TO HAVE, you know?!

E.W proved to be our hardest one to name...I wanted Isaac, the Mr. wanted Wyatt, and we just couldn't agree to each other's name!

So, he ended up with E.W. Weird, I know. ;)

3. What is your favorite type of weather? (From@TheSpunkyDiva)

My ideal day is humidity free, mid to upper 70's, with a light breeze. Perfect for hangin' out at the beach or outside or just for sittin' on the deck sippin' on a cold Mike's Lemonade.

Wednesday was one of those days. But I was too sad to enjoy it. :(

4. If left to your own devices, what time would you wake up every day? (From Sandy at "Pardon My Dust")

See, this is a tricky question for me. I get up to say good-bye to my school aged kids everyday, then go back to bed...I drag myself out of bed about 9-9:30, when my little ones wake me up, but I'm usually tired and groggy.

I've tried staying awake after I see the big kids off, but then mid afternoon arrives and I can barely stay awake!

When the Mr. and I have been on vacation (okay, so yeah...it was only one time) I would wake up about 9 am everyday. Refreshed, relaxed, rejeuvenated! I totally thought I would be asleep until noon, but I just couldn't sleep past 9!

I think it was because my sleep was sooooooo amazing, that I didn't need to sleep longer! There were no midnight potty breaks to wake up for, no 5 am "kid crawling into bed with us" disruptions, no 6am alarm for the Mr. going off, no seeing kids off to school...just a gloriously uninterrupted 8 hours of sleep...ahhhhh...

5. Have you bought your cemetery plots yet? (From Pam at "Troop Petrie")

No, we haven't. Our church had a little "sale" on plots awhile ago...actually it wasn't so much a sale but more of a "the prices are gonna go up so, GET YOURS NOW!!!!". But we didn't bite.

So, we remain plotless...we really need to work on a will, first!




Comments

  1. I totally "get it" about the ankle socks with jeans. It just doesn't feel right.

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  2. Since my nice little do something good post about Kiva got erased, I was glad to stumble across your nice little fun hop.

    :)

    Thanks for a wee bit o' blog fodder!

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  3. I've been thinking about you this week. Praying that your heart finds some sweet relief. If ever you need anything please don't hesitate to ask ... we can't be THAT far away from each other!

    Hope your weekend is wonderful!

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  4. Question #2 should be for Twitter @Mamatodh :-)

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