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Never Ending Winter...

It always strikes me, at this time of the year, when the sun struggles to rise above the tree tops, just how stinkin' long winter is.

I don't know if it's the knowledge about just how far the sun has to rise in the sky before we'll be blessed with warmth and green and chirping birds again, or what...but it always seems like January is when it really hits me.

That we're in this for the long haul. That the little bit of winter we've just passed through was just the beginning.


Sure doesn't help anything that I was just looking through pictures like these:

And dreaming of the days in which I complain about how hot it is. Ahhhhh...summer, I can't wait!!


  1. I am SO with you on this!!! Right now, I'll even settle for Spring!!

  2. I just found your blog through another and I can't wait to read more!

    And I agree about January-it's too long! I want warm weather back too!

  3. Ya, I agree 100%. I'm over winter after the first snow fall.. Then it can go away. I hate walking outside and feeling my snot freeze.. (I know that might be a little tmi, but that's the way things are). I can't wait for Spring, and Summer. :)

  4. I just blogged about wanting warmer weather in my blog...I'm ready for winter to be gone!!!!!!

  5. I was just thinking about how warm it was at the beach last fall. We need a good melt here.

  6. Try going on a vacay in 77 degree Orlando and coming back to a freak snowstorm. 12 inches and a state of emergency in Tennessee. DE-PRESS-ING.

  7. Ahhhhhhh, torture to look at summertime pics!
    I am with you on "neverending winter" !! I get pretty "hopeless" at this time of year, thinking we will never feel the warm summer sun and crisp clean breeze again! And, then we get a mild day and it helps me get through!

  8. I am totally with you on this! I miss the summer so bad! I am so sick of the cold, grey, snowy days! Bring on the hot, sunny summery days! :]

  9. Definetly with you on this one. Please hurry summer!!

  10. We just got 7 + inches of snow in Columbia, SC. This never happens! I am so over the cold and ready for the warm. Bring on summer!!

  11. It hits me in February. There's usually one day when it just feels like it's going to last forever and I cry like the biggest sucky baby ever.

    Love the pic of BabyGirl in her itty bitty bikini! She is adorable.

    Hang tight, sistah. Summer has to come back eventually ;-)


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