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Whoa Nelly.

Hold onto your horses. Well, maybe not you, I dunno what your schedule looks like, but mine? Yikes.

A run down:

Today: "Hambone and Mama" day. School shopping mano a mano, dinner and a movie.

Tuesday and Wednesday: Work, one 12 hour shift, one 8 hour shift. Fit shopping for (see following) reunion in there somewhere. Oh, and Wednesday is a birthday for a certain almost 6 year old that I know.

Thursday: Cook, pack, leave for reunion/vacation. (Yes, another vacation. Don't hate.)

Wait...back up...sometime between Mon and Thurs, call ServiceMaster, foam cutting place, and whomever else it's gonna take to get our camper patched up from the mouse debacle that occurred over the winter that I promised I'd tell you about and I still haven't. #oops.

Sunday: Pack up from reunion, head to brunch with the whole gang, then to home to host a birthday party for aforementioned almost 6 year old.

Monday: "The Pal and Mama Day".

Tuesday: Work.

Wednesday: "Dubya and Mama Day".

Thursday: "Belle and Mama Day".

Friday, Saturday, Sunday: Work, work, and more work. Oh, and go to the Mr.'s 20th class reunion. Aaaaaaannnnd..something else seems like it needs to fit in here, but I can't remember what it is right now.

Sunday night (Monday morning?): Head to Rochester/Mayo Clinic with my mom, aunt, and grandma. My Gram suffers from Myasthenia Gravis and has been undergoing testing.

Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday: Mayo Clinic with aforementioned peeps.

Thursday: Work.

Friday: The Pal's first day of Behind the Wheel (wait, is that the same link as above?!)

Saturday: Ohmigosh. I don't think there is anything planned!!! HALLELUJIA!!

Sunday: Begin to feel anxious about school resuming in 2 days.

Monday: Try to enjoy Labor Day, but mostly feel sad that my kiddos are about to head off to school for another year.

Tuesday: First day *sniffle* of *snuffle* school *sob*!! My sweet Hambone starts Kindergarten...and I'm afraid of how my Baby Girl is going to take not having her best bud home with her. :(

And that, is the time warp of the next three weeks of my life.

You feel totally enlightened now that you know that, dontcha?


  1. i had to stop and take some deep breathes to help you get through that list. praying the doctors can help, the reunion is amazing and vacation lets you rest

  2. My schedule is insane too!! I think it's just that time of the year.

  3. Damn that is one loaded schedule! Wow! Also, I have myasthenia gravis so I'm wondering what kind of testing she is undergoing? I've had it since I was 13 and I'm not *grumbles* 30.

    Hope you find some time to stop and enjoy life!

  4. I felt dizzy just reading all of that! How do you time manage?

  5. I love that you have already planned to be worried about school!

  6. Seriously....the last few weeks before school starts are crazy! We actually start on the 29th...sigh.

  7. My head is spinning just after reading this, you have such a busy life!


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